H4M

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Location: Nationwide, emphasis on the South

Focus Area: Professionals

Price Range: Mid-Range

At H4M, we specialize in private, offline matchmaking for LGBTQ professionals seeking meaningful, long-term relationships. Wherever you live, we connect you with like-minded singles who align with your values and lifestyle. With a personal, vetted approach that eliminates the guesswork of apps and blind dates, we make dating safer, easier, and more rewarding. Ready for a real connection? Let’s get started.

Testimonials

  • '“I firmly believe there is nothing more beautiful in this world than love, so I want to thank you for helping so many find theirs.” - Bachelor, North Carolina, 60

  • “Through you, I have truly identified what I am seeking in a compatible partner.” - Bachelor, DC, 30

Website: www.H4M.com

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Terrific Dates from the West Coast to the East Coast!

Our team shares here just a few playful, romantic, and delicious dating venues in the cities we work in and travel to often across the country.  We love and enjoy great food – so here are just a few for you.

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