Allure Matchmaking
Location: Nationwide, emphasis on the South
Focus Area: Professionals
Price Range: Mid-Range
Ancient Wisdom Modern Love is a luxury matchmaking service for high-achieving, relationship-ready professionals. We blend timeless Eastern philosophy with modern relationship psychology to create meaningful, lasting matches. With a deep network, personalized coaching, and a proven track record, we specialize in serving Asian American and elite clients seeking serious, values-aligned partnerships. Discreet, bespoke, and results-driven—love, the wise way.
Cassindy Chao brings a rare blend of analytical rigor and heartfelt intuition to the world of modern matchmaking. A former Goldman Sachs investment banker turned relationship strategist, Cassindy now helps high-achieving professionals find meaningful, lasting love. Known for her deep empathy and warmth, Cassindy is also a happily married mother of three, celebrating over 25 years with her husband. She is based in the Bay Area and works with clients around the globe. Cassindy is a sought-after speaker and author of Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love.
Testimonials
Cassie has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today. S.D. & K.S., La Jolla, CA
We Found Marriage. Getting married during pandemic was an adjustment and we made it work. Now you can add another success story to your list! PL & RS
Guide to Working With Matchmakers
Terrific Dates from the West Coast to the East Coast!
Our team shares here just a few playful, romantic, and delicious dating venues in the cities we work in and travel to often across the country. We love and enjoy great food – so here are just a few for you.
