We help discerning singles find the perfect matchmaker

Choosing the Right Matchmaker Matters

Matchmakers are a meaningful investment. The relationship with your matchmaker is almost as important as your relationship with your future partner. There are over 5,000 matchmakers each with their own approach and experience. Finding the one who is truly he best fit for you can be a challenge.

  • They represent you

    The best matchmakers act as your dedicated advocate. Finding a matchmaker that is best aligned with your values, lifestyle, culture, and relationship goals is critical. If your matchmaker does not understand you, then they cannot advocate and represent you well and with authenticity.

  • A tailored experience makes a difference.

    A good matchmaker customizes your experience. You are so more than a generic transaction which can result in mismatched dates, wasting your valuable time and energy. Your love life deserves to be treated with care.

  • Trust and communication are everything.

    It is important to be open, honest, and (often) vulnerable with your matchmaker, which is why you need to really feel a connection with them. Without that trust, you’re less likely to share what you really want—or voice concerns when something isn’t working.

What We Do For You

Finding a list of matchmakers is easy, choosing the right one is hard and finding the wrong one can hurt your chances to find your match! Our experienced matchmakers have deep industry knowledge, are part of the two national consortiums, and work only with reputable certified veteran matchmakers across the country.  We don’t just refer—we recommend with intention and insight.

1. Understand You and Who you Want to Meet

Talk to a Matchmaker today - You’ll talk to one of our experienced team members so we can learn about you and your specific needs including your background, values, and geographic preferences. Then we can connect you directly to YOUR recommended matchmakers.

2. Make Direct Referrals

Based on our years of experience, we’ll make 2-3 personalized and direct referrals to matchmakers who are a good fit for you. You’ll skip the guesswork and “chance” involved in just getting assigned to a recruiter or a staffer and be connected with the person who will work with you.

3. Set You Up for Success

After working with more than 1000 singles over 2 decades, we have learned a lot about what works, and what doesn’t.  As a bonus, we’ll share tips on how best to work with your matchmaker and how to set yourself up for long-term dating success.

Frequently Asked Questions

  •  You can go on a hike in a new place without a map, but it can be easier to navigate and not miss any highlights if you have a guide.   We can help you sort through all of the information that is out there about individual matchmakers as well as larger agencies — to find the specific person who is right to work with you.   Moreover, we can also share some suggested tips for how to negotiate and what you could expect with the top matchmakers.

  • You can! I’m an experienced matchmaker who works primarily with clients in San Francisco, NYC and Los Angeles who are over 35. This is a great fit for some people, but not for others and that is fine. I may not be the right person to help you find love, but I’m happy to help you find the right person to help you on your journey.

  • There is no charge to you. Our consultation phone call and the recommendations are absolutely free.

  • No obligation. While I hope you connect with the people I recommend, there is no obligation to work with them. While there will be specific reasons for my recommendations, everyone does better when there is connection and fit, which is a decision you need to make for yourself.

  • Typically, you can expect 2-4 recommendations. We’ll let you know who we recommend and very importantly WHY we think they’d be a good fit for you.   

  • We want you to be successful.  If none of our recommendations work for you, we’re happy have an additional conversation with you.  We can’t guarantee additional recommendation(s), but we’ll try our best.

  • Each matchmaker or agency has a different set of costs and overhead. Think of it like working with an executive recruiter. This can cover the cost of maintaining and sourcing for their databases, events, and services to support the client depending on the requirements. This is why it’s so important to find the right match for you with them and their respective databases. We’d be glad to share general parameters during our chat.

Selected Matchmakers